Monday, May 1, 2017

Balayan, Batangas: One wedding and a funeral


The other day, I went to Balayan. I woke up thinking I have to go somewhere but I really did not know where..had no plans at all. I just knew that I want be out of the house doing something  different. So, I asked Google. Should it be somewhere in Laguna, Quezon or Batangas?  Prioritized Batangas after some thinking. Would have wanted to do an ocular of the beach so I can give good recommendations to friends but it was just too hot. Anyway, I decided in the end to go to Balayan instead after I saw photos of old houses similar to those of Taal. I really am a sucker for anything historic.

Balayan is  two towns farther than Taal. Unlike Taal where one is dropped right in the middle of the town, passengers going to Balayan have to get off the public utility vehicle along the highway and take another pedicab at the cost of 10 pesos  (not bad) to the town center. Knowing nothing about Balayan, I just asked the pedicab driver to take me to the church.




The church looked its age. Old and rundown. It seems to me like the place needs a bit of tender loving care but what do I know. I am just passing by.

It was another hot day and thought of getting something to munch on. Wandered around the public market right across the church but couldn’t find a local restaurant. There was a Jollibee and McDonalds near the vicinity but couldn’t care less for those two. I did not travel all the way to Balayan just to eat at fastfood restaurants.

One pedicab driver recommended and brought me to this place located a bit farther from the back of the church. It is called Kamayan sa Dike, a lovely little restaurant run by a family. They serve local dishes which are intended to be eaten with one’s bare hands--no forks and spoons. Their food is good at a reasonable price I’d say. Individual meals cost less than a hundred.  I ordered the tapang Taal and ensalada and I was quite satisfied. I would recommend it.


After lunch, tried to check out the place and locate the heritage houses. I ended up in the church again without a glimpse of the houses whose pictures I saw on the net. Anyway, since it was too hot, I thought it would be a nice time to just attend the church service so sat at the back. It was after a while when I realized that it was a funeral service I was attending. What the heck. I will just finish it. The deceased seemed to be a well loved person. There were a bunch of his buddies in uniforms marked Balayan Offroad Club so he must be a member of that.  May God rest his soul.



The service took maybe around an hour. After everyone was gone I went around looking for a staff to ask permission if I could go up the bell tower. I couldn’t get hold of one. All of them are busy preparing for the next service which was a wedding. They seemed to be on a strict timetable. There were guys trying to roll out the red carpet while some were assisting with the flowers and the lace décor. When I finally got to talk to one, he informed me that the belfry was closed. They do not allow people to go up there anymore.

I was honestly disappointed but what else can I do. Walked out of the church and was just in time to see the bride get off the bridal car.



I tried to continue my quest for the heritage houses which was in vain. They do not have much of those or if there are they are not within walking distance from the church. The thing is I did not feel like going much farther. The heat was intense. I just hopped in another pedicab and went to the bay walk instead. I killed time, just watching the kids attempt to fly their kites despite the stillness of the winds. By four thirty, I decided to go home.




Balayan was a different experience.  I kind of expected more but what it reminded me instead is that life ends at some point so we have to seize each day. Live. Love. Maybe get married. Or just do nothing… just sit by the baywalk and contemplate. Just like the futile attempts of those kids to fly their kites, we just have to keep trying and just keep going. Do not give up.

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